The Pleasures of Commune Living

   So you don't have sugar. No problem. Go to the family staying in the garage and they will give you some sugar. No cooking oil also? Don't sweat. Try the family living in the 'mmesonite' construction behind the house.

   These are some of the benefits of staying in a commune Protea South(my 'kasi') style. If you have run out of stuff and you are not able to buy it right away( or, frankly, you do not have the money to do so now), it is not a shame to go ask your neighbour to help you out.

   One of the main features of Protea South is the presence of 'madala' houses. These are big and old houses that were once owned by the municipality(and used to house white folks in the past). In these houses you now find 3 to 4 families sharing the house. And these 4 families (or so) are not the only ones living in the yard. There maybe one or two 'mekhukhu'(shacks) also in the same yard. 

   This set up is the best demonstration of the concept of 'ubuntu'('I am because of others'). You cannot say no to a genuine request for help, because living in such close proximity to other families means that you are bound to ask for a favour too at some stage in the future. It could be a small thing like needing someone to help you push your car if it doesn't start.

   Living like this is secure too. Not in the sense that someone is guarding you. But you can count on your yard neighbours to come to your aid when someone tries to burgle your house/room at night. And mercy to that burglar if they are ever apprehended.

   And the negatives? Not too many to be a big deal. After all, this close living is how we are brought up in the African culture.

   Having said that, I must admit that the loud music/noise situation is uncontrollable sometimes. It becomes a 'free-for-all' kind of at times, where you have hip-hop versus shangaan music vs 'dipina tsa Basotho'. In this mix you add people who want no noise because they are watching TV or reading a book. But one cannot complain too much at such chaos. This is commune living. You take the good with the bad. 

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Guilty As Charged Indeed

   A sense of relief.

   We are relieved that  our legal system in this instance lived up to its promise to treat everyone equally.

   We say this in the wake of the guilty verdict in the case of musician Jub Jub Maarohanye and his friend Themba Tshabalala. After a very lengthy trial - running for two and half years - these two were finally found guilty of murder on four accounts and of attempted murder on two other accounts. The case arose from an accident in 2010 in which the cars driven by the two veered off the road and  slammed into a group of students, killing four students and severely injuring two others.

   The length of time it took to finally arrive at the verdict had given rise to fears that Jub Jub might get away with murder literally, because he is a well known musician. We had feared that his money - in the form of expensive lawyers - might just allow him to escape justice.

   The trial was not about whether someone likes Jub Jub or not. It was about the facts of the matter. And the facts are that a drag race on a public road by Jub Jub and Themba - who were both under the influence of drugs and alcohol - resulted in an accident that led to four pupils losing their lives and two others being maimed. Even as a friend of Jub Jub, you cannot argue with these facts. Justice had to be done.

   The man in the street will sleep easier, knowing that the judicial system in our country is fair.  Celebrity or not, we are all equal before the law.

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The Courage a 14-Year-Old Girl

   Our hearts go out to Malala Yousufzai and her family. 

Malala is the 14-year-old school girl who was shot in the head by the Taliban Islamic militants in Pakistan . That she survived this attempt on her life is a true miracle.

   All Malala did was simply stand up for her right(and that of her fellow Paskistani girls) to an education. The Taliban militants are vehemently opposed to girls being educated. They are so opposed to education of girls that at some stage in the past - when they controlled this north western part of Pakistan where Malala lives - they burnt down schools for girls.

   The real threat to world peace is not Iran and its nuclear capabilities. Nor is it Syria with its chemical weapons. The real threat to the modern world is the Taliban and its archaic thinking towards women(who comprise half of the world's population).

   Once again we say:

                                                        SAY NO

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 Say 'no'.

NO.

Say 'no' to violence.

'No' to violence against women.

'No' to violence against children.

Say 'Yes'.

YES.

'Yes' to 16 days activism.

'Yes' to activism for those most vulnerable.

Stand firm.

Stand firm against domestic violence.

Stand firm against spousal abuse.

Say 'Stop'.

STOP.

Say 'Stop' to violence against anyone.

Say 'Stop' especially,

To violence against women and children.

An injury to one woman,

An injury to one child,

Is an injury to all of us.

Say 'No'.

NO.

Say 'No'.

NO.

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An Insight Into the LGBTI Community. Thanks 'Aza'.

   Now we know who is a 'Stella McCartney' in LGBTI speak. This is someone who will steal your stuff if you ever date them.
   This past week we got to know about this term and others as used by the LGBTI(Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans-gendered & Inter-sexed)  community amongst themselves, thanks to Metro FM's  Azania 'Aza' Mosaka. For most of the week, during her 'Total Bliss' show(9am to 12 midday), 'Aza'  interviewed several prominent members of the LGBTI community here in Gauteng. She was doing these interviews in an attempt to highlight the plight of this community ahead of their Joburg Pride march(that took place yesterday - Saturday 6th).
   The Gay and Lesbian community is routinely victimized in some townships. If the lesbians are not raped in order to 'cure' them, they are murdered. Or both. All of this because they are homosexual. 
   By bringing a few members of this community on air 'Aza' was saying - in a way - that she is fully behind them. And this is a stance that should be adopted by all South Africans. Prejudice against someone because of their sexual orientation is the same as discriminating against someone because of the colour of their skin. There is not much you can do about your skin colour. Just as much as there is nothing you can do about your sexual orientation. 
   The highlight of this series of interviews was no doubt the final one(done on Friday 5th). 'Aza' interviewed the king of the LGBTIs himself - Somizi Mhlongo. In a no holds bared interview Somizi told us about his 'uku guzuka'(bruises) on this road to making people(fellow Africans in particular) accept him the way he is. Loved how he started this interview by saying, "People must not phone in and ask me why I am gay. This is 2012."

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